The Tragic Case of Ji’Aire Lee and His Mother’s Mental Illness

In May 2015, a heart-wrenching event unfolded in La Plata, Maryland, that left a community in shock and a family shattered. Romechia Simms, a 24-year-old mother, pushed her three-year-old son, Ji’Aire Lee, in a playground swing for 44 hours straight, through two cold and rainy nights. Tragically, Ji’Aire died during this time, and his death sparked deep questions about mental illness, parental responsibility, and the family court system. At Phacts, we are dedicated to uncovering the truth behind complex and emotional stories, and the tragic case of Ji’Aire Lee is one that demands attention. This article explores the events leading to Ji’Aire’s death, Romechia’s untreated mental health struggles, the efforts of Ji’Aire’s father to protect his son, the legal rulings that followed, and the broader issues this case exposed.

A Devastating Scene at the Park

On the morning of May 22, 2015, Charles County Sheriff’s deputies responded to a troubling call at Wills Memorial Park in La Plata, Maryland. A neighbor had noticed something alarming: a woman had been pushing a young child in a playground swing for an unusually long time, possibly since the previous day. When officers arrived, they found Romechia Simms pushing her son, Ji’Aire Lee, in a swing. The sight was heartbreaking—Ji’Aire was no longer alive. His small body was stiff, and deputies had to cut him from the swing to remove him. The medical examiner later determined that Ji’Aire died of hypothermia and dehydration, caused by prolonged exposure to cold and rain. His death was ruled a homicide.

The Days Before the Tragedy

Romechia and Ji’Aire had arrived at the park early on Wednesday, May 20, 2015. Witnesses later reported seeing them there for days, with Romechia pushing Ji’Aire in the swing almost without pause. She didn’t leave to get food, water, or shelter, even as temperatures dropped into the 40s and rain soaked the area. Romechia had no supplies with her—no diapers, no extra clothes, no blankets for her son. Park visitors noted her unusual behavior but didn’t intervene, assuming she might leave soon. No one realized the severity of the situation until it was too late.

Romechia’s Struggle with Mental Illness

Romechia Simms was not a typical mother neglecting her child out of malice. She was battling severe, untreated mental illness. Friends and family later revealed that Romechia had shown signs of mental health issues for years, but her condition worsened after Ji’Aire’s birth. She had been diagnosed with schizophrenia, a serious mental disorder that can cause delusions, hallucinations, and disorganized thinking. Without proper treatment, Romechia’s grasp on reality began to slip. Those close to her described moments where she seemed disconnected, speaking incoherently or acting in ways that didn’t make sense.

A Father’s Fight for Custody

Weeks before Ji’Aire’s death, his father, James Lee, had taken steps to protect his son. Concerned about Romechia’s deteriorating mental state and her ability to care for Ji’Aire, James filed for custody in April 2015. He had noticed troubling signs during his visits with Ji’Aire, including times when Romechia seemed unable to focus on basic caregiving tasks. James, who was not living with Romechia, wanted to ensure his son was safe. He provided evidence of Romechia’s struggles to the court, hoping a judge would grant him custody or at least supervised visitation for Romechia. However, the court process moved slowly, and no final decision was made before the tragedy occurred.

The Role of the Family Court System

The family court system’s handling of Ji’Aire’s case raised questions about how mental health issues are addressed in custody disputes. James Lee’s concerns about Romechia’s mental state were documented, but the court did not act quickly enough to intervene. At the time, Maryland’s family courts, like many across the country, were overwhelmed with cases, often leading to delays in hearings and decisions. Additionally, there was no clear protocol for addressing untreated mental illness in custody cases, leaving judges with limited options unless immediate danger was proven.

The Legal Aftermath

After Ji’Aire’s death, Romechia Simms was charged with manslaughter and child abuse. Prosecutors argued that her actions, even if influenced by mental illness, led directly to Ji’Aire’s death. However, Romechia’s defense team emphasized her untreated schizophrenia, arguing that she was not in control of her actions. They presented medical records showing she had been prescribed medication in the past but had stopped taking it, likely because of her inability to recognize her own condition.

In 2016, a judge ruled that Romechia could not be held criminally responsible for Ji’Aire’s death due to her severe mental illness. Instead of prison, she was committed to a psychiatric facility for treatment. The ruling sparked mixed reactions. Some felt Romechia deserved punishment, while others saw the decision as a recognition of how mental illness can devastate lives if left untreated. For James Lee, the ruling offered little comfort—he had lost his son, and the system had failed to protect him.

Mental Illness and Parental Responsibility

The tragic case of Ji’Aire Lee highlights the complex intersection of mental illness and parenting. Schizophrenia, when untreated, can impair a person’s ability to make rational decisions, including those related to childcare. Romechia’s actions—pushing Ji’Aire in a swing for days without food or shelter—were not driven by cruelty but by a mind unable to process reality. Yet, this raises difficult questions: How can society balance compassion for those with mental illness with the need to protect children? And what responsibility do families, communities, and systems have to intervene when warning signs appear?

A Community’s Response

In La Plata, Ji’Aire’s death left a lasting impact. Residents who frequented Wills Memorial Park struggled with guilt, wondering if they could have done more to help. The park, once a place of joy, became a somber reminder of the tragedy. Community members held vigils for Ji’Aire, leaving flowers and toys at the swing where he died. Local leaders called for better mental health resources, pointing out that Charles County, like many rural areas, lacked accessible psychiatric care. Ji’Aire’s story became a rallying cry for change, though many felt the response was too little, too late.

The Broader Systemic Issues

Ji’Aire Lee’s tragedy exposed gaps in multiple systems. First, the mental health system failed Romechia. Despite her diagnosis, she fell through the cracks, receiving inconsistent treatment and no follow-up care. Second, the family court system failed Ji’Aire and his father. James Lee’s custody filing should have triggered a faster response, especially given Romechia’s documented mental health issues. Finally, the child welfare system, which could have investigated Ji’Aire’s living situation, was not involved until after his death. These failures point to a larger problem: a lack of coordination between mental health, judicial, and child protection services.

Lessons from Ji’Aire’s Death

The tragic case of Ji’Aire Lee offers several lessons. First, mental illness must be treated as a public health priority, with accessible care for those who need it most. Second, family courts need better tools to address mental health concerns in custody cases, including faster evaluations and temporary safety measures. Third, communities must be educated to recognize warning signs of mental illness and know how to intervene safely. Finally, child welfare agencies should work proactively to protect children in high-risk situations, even when no formal complaint has been filed.

A Father’s Grief and Advocacy

James Lee’s life was forever changed by his son’s death. In the years following the tragedy, he spoke publicly about Ji’Aire, sharing memories of a bright, curious boy who loved cars and cartoons. James also became an advocate for reforming the family court system, urging lawmakers to prioritize children’s safety in custody disputes involving mental illness. His efforts helped raise awareness, but he admitted the pain of losing Ji’Aire never eased. “I just wanted to keep him safe,” James said in a 2017 interview. “That’s all any father wants.”

The Legacy of Ji’Aire Lee

Ji’Aire Lee’s short life ended in tragedy, but his story continues to resonate. In Maryland, his case prompted discussions about mental health funding and court reforms, though progress has been slow. For those who knew Ji’Aire, he is remembered as a joyful toddler whose smile could light up a room. His death serves as a reminder of the fragility of life and the urgent need to support those struggling with mental illness. At Phacts, we believe stories like Ji’Aire’s can inspire change, even in the face of heartbreak.

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